Are you stressed with your life? Do you want to learn how to control how that stress affects you? Would you like to turn those feelings of stress into motivation?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnotherapy techniques have the answers to these questions.

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The human brain receives messages from several sources; each dealing with separates types of information. Input dealing with everyday matters such as news music, jobs, relationships, weather Etc., comes from the external environment. Our own bodies provide data concerning Movement, digestion, tension, pain etc., all in the form of message, sent to the brain.

The conscious mind deals with reasoning and logic, decisions, goals planning and conscious activity. The unconscious mind, which includes both the subconscious and the superconscious, wields the greatest influence. It receives all the messages from our social, spiritual and genetic backgrounds and all the conflicts and disturbances, which enter our consciousness each day. The unconscious mind receives and holds its information, neither accepting nor rejecting the messages. Its does not evaluate. That procedure is reserved for the conscious mind.

From primitive times the human animal has possessed an escape mechanism that even today, under severely threatening conditions, can cause regression to primitive behaviour. The fight / flight syndrome, always a mean of dealing with fears, threats attacks and other disturbances, has gained tolerance through evolution with the addition of reaction vs. action and repression vs. depression. Without these, when the message input volume reached overload conditions, the escape would be toward the denial of reality. However, the desire for social acceptance provides motivation to cope with and adapt to reality.

Nevertheless, when the conscious mind can no longer handle the message units overloading the brain, the subconscious prepares us for fight or flight-the heart pumps harder, blood pressure rises, super-strength can be generated. But sometimes there is nothing to fight. We can’t fight the environment. We can’t fight a job, an accident a bad decision. What now?

Enter Stress / Anxiety

Unable to fight, the reaction turns to the alternative of flight, which in present day life can prove impossible. Often a state of apathy, depression and/or hypersuggestibility ensues. Negative input finds acceptance. Futility and melancholy develop and an overreaction to the senses develops together with a loss of tolerance. The road turns downhill.

Imagine a group of musicians playing together. Imagine the trumpet player getting a measure or two ahead of the rest. Imagine the saxophone player, trying to figure out what a trumpeter is doing, dropping a measure behind. Imagine the drummer, becoming confused, missing his beats so that the whole group gets off beat. Imagine the conductor waving his arms desperately trying to orient the players. Imagine the cacophony as the musician collapse, give up and quit playing.

A person experiencing continuing stress may well become subject to such a frenzy, in the process developed any or several forms of stress-related illness. While certain types of stress are even desirable (romantic stress, job promotions, winning a lottery). Stresses that produce debilitation, depression, excessive smoking, overeating, anger grief, similar reactions need attention and usually professional help.

The first recognition of a therapist dealing with stress is likely to be that while the world, or the past if it is a factor in the condition, cannot be changed, it is possible to alter the client’s perception of and reaction to them.

Again, causal factors need to be investigated and not infrequently regression can be helpful in this process. Stress may be a reaction to people, places, events, or things. The threats may be real or imagined. Remember, the subconscious mind does not analyze, and usually by the time depression appears the conscious mind has lost its ability to do so. However, there are several common basic causes of stress, which can be recognized, defined and often eliminated.

What’s behind it all?

Why me? Stress victims ask the questions quite often. Many factors enter in the picture of possibilities. Overachievers, typical type a personalities, are hypercompetitive. They can be addicted to stress. They can enjoy it, until it gets out of control. Victims can learn stress early in life form early experience they simply consider stress a normal part of life; they see it all the time.

Fears, valid or otherwise, can lead to the development of symptoms of stress. They can expand into fullgrown phobias and psychiatric disorders. Unrelenting pain or worries over health situations are factors, as are repressed emotions such as hurt, anger, grief, etc. Specific incidents are frequently involved, such as the necessity to speak in a group in the course of job performance when such activity is uncomfortable.

Medical conditions, includes dietary deficiencies, can lead to stress, as can such female experiences as PMS. External factors, such as continuous or intermittent bothersome noise levels, can create or add to stress levels.

Every individual is different in tolerance levels, coping abilities, reactions and therapeutic needs. Dealing with stress is best accomplished through a trained, experience and sensitive professional who can determine cause. Effective and desensitisation, which can be brought about through hypnotherapy.

It is important to analyze the stress stimuli and the physical and/or emotional responses, which they bring about. Through hypnosis positive new responses can be created to replace the devastating reactions of the past. Buried feelings can be brought to the surface and released. Outside pressure can be relieved. And finally, new responses to old disturbances can be included with major changes in attitudes and reactions.

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